Key of happiness – खुशियों की चाबी कहाँ है ?


Ek sawal ka jawab mai kabse dhundne ka prayas kar raha hu ki duniya itni thag kyun hai ? Kyun insaan bas ek dusre ka shoshan karne me lage hai ? Aaj kyun insan aisa ban gaya hai ki sab ek dusre ko nicha dikhane ka prayas karte hai ? Mai ye nahi kehta ki har koi aisa hai lekin jaha tak maine duniya dekhi hai jyadatar log bas isi formula ko apnate hai. Koi bhi mouka nahi chhorte dusro ka shoshan karne ka. Dukh to tab hota hai jab aapke apne bhi aapko thagne ka prayas karte hai.

Mujhe ye samajh me nahi aata ki duniya me jine ke liye tedha hona jaroori kyun hai. Log imandaar logo ko bewkoof kyun samajhte hai ? Insan itna neeche kaise gir gaya ki ab kisi pe bhi bharosha karne me bhi darr lagta hai, kyuki kab wo aapse vishwash ghat karega iski koi guarantee nahi nahi.

Log mujhe bewkoof samajhte hai kyuki mai bahot hi sidha aur saral hu. Kuch log mujhe kehte bhi hai ki itne sidhe mat raho thage jaoge aur kai baar aisa hota bhi hai duniya mujhe thagne ka prayas bhi karti hai.

Ha mai is baat se khush hu ki mai ek saral insan hu jo dil me aata hai bol deta hu. Bhale hi duniya mujhe bewkuf samjhe mujhe firbhi bura nahi lagega. Chahe kitni bhi duniya mere sidhapan ka fayda uthaye mujhe firbhi bura nahi lagega. Kyuki mera dil ye manta hai ki log agar thag hai to ye unki galti hai ye unki kamjor mansikta hai. Iske liye mai apne aapko kyun badlu ?

Logo ke kehne par maine kai baar apne aapko badalne ki koshish bhi ki lekin mera dil kabhi bhi is baat ke liye razi nahi hota ki logo ka shoshan se bachne ke liye mai apne aapko badal lu ya yu kahe ki dusro ki tarah ban jau. Mai bhi dusro ka shoshan karu.

Meri sabse badi kamjori yehi hai ki mai apne man me galatfemi paal leta hu aur ye samajh baithta hu ki agar maine kisi pe vishwash kiya hai to wo bhi mere vishwash ko nahi todega. Agar mai imandar hu to sari duniya mujhse imandar rahegi. Meri kamjori ye hai ki koi mujhe do char meethi meethi baaten kar le to use apna samajh baithta hu aur dil ki baat bata deta hu.

Ha mai bewkoof hu lekin mujhe ye bewkoofi achhi lagti hai. Kyuki mera dil ye janta hai ki mai kisi ke saath galat nahi kar raha.

Mai chahe kaisa bhi hu lekin maine zindagi se bas ek baat sikha hai ki. Chahe aap kitna bhi paisa kamalo, kitna bhi logo ka shoshan kar lo, jhuthi shaan me jio lekin agar in sab chijo ke bawjood aapke dil ko tasalli nahi milti to ye sari chije bekar ho jata hai. Itna kuch pane ke baad bhi aap khush nahi rah sakte.

Mera mannna hai ki bhagwan ne ek hi aisa chij banaya hai jo kabhi jhuth nahi bolta aur jhuth bardast bhi nahi karta aur wo hai aapka “Dil”

Chahe aap garib ho, amir ho, achhe ho, bure ho lekin dil kabhi bhi bura nahi hota. Wo humesha insan ko sahi direction me le jata hai. Ye alag baat hai ki aaj insan ka dimag itna jyada develop ho gaya hai ki unka dimag dil par hawi hai. Jyadatar insan aajkal dil ki nahi balki dimag ka sunte hai aur karte hai.

Bas isi wajah se insan aaj itne badle badle se lagte hai. Ye dimag hi hai jo insan ko haiwan bana deta hai. Warna dil me to bhagwan baste hai wo itna bura kaise ho sakte hai.

Dukh to bahot hota hai logo ko is roop me dekhkar lekin kar bhi kya sakta hu. Bas aapke saath man ki baat share kar leta hu aur dil se kehta hu “All is well”

Kasam se kehta hu jis din insan dimag ki jagah dil se sochne lage na us din ye duniya badal jayegi. Log bahot khush rahenge, ek dusre ki help karne me hi unhe khushi milegi. Shastra (Yudh ke liye) ki aawasakya hi nahi padegi. Bas charo aur pyar hi pyar hoga.

Aisi behki behki baaten mai isliye ker raha hu ki maine is baat ka zindagi me anubhaw kiya hu. Aaap bhi karke dekhe thoda sa apne nazariye ko badalkar to dekhe aapki zindagi badal jayegi. Aaaj har koi khushi dund raha hai lekin bewkuf ye nahi samajhta hai ki khushi dundne se nahi milti khushi baantne se milti hai. Yehi ek simple sa philosophy hai ki aap jaisa doge return me aapko waisa hi milega. Aaap dusre ko paththar maroge aur ye ummid karoge ki wo aapko pyaar de ye namumkin hai.

Gandhi ji ka philosophy ko agar aap gehrai se soche to wo galat nahi the. Pyar me sach me itna takat hota hai ki aap bure se bure insan ko bhi badal sakte hai. Lekin iske liye drid ichha sakti ki jaroorat hoti hai. Ye aam insan ki bas ki baat nahi hai. Kyuki us level ka shehanshilta aajkal logo me nahi bacha hai ki ek gaal me thappad khaye to dusre gaal ko samne rakh de.

Lekin agar aap sach me khush rehna chate hai to is baat ko maan le ki aap ko khushi tabhi mil sakti hai jab aap dusro ko khushi doge. Iske siwa duniya me koi bhi vyakti ya wastu nahi hai jo aapko khushi de. Agar vishwash nahi hota to aap kisi amir aadmi se puch kar dekh lena jinke paas apna bangla ho, gadi ho, noukar chakar ho aur family bhi ho.

Unse bas itna puchna ki kya aap apni zindagi se khush hai ? Unka bhi answer ye hi hoga ki nahi mai bhi khushi dhund raha hu.

Aisa isliye kyuki jise log apni khushi samajh baithte hai asal me wo khushi nahi hoti balki unka jaroorat hota hai. Jaise hi jaroorat puri ho jati hai khushi fir se gayab ho jati hai. Fir wo kisi duste chij me khushi dhundne ka prayash karne lagte hai. Isi tarah nirantar khushiyan dhudne me hi unki zindagi kat jati hai lekin asal me khushi milti nahi hai.

Aaap chahe to ye baat chhoti chhoti baaton se khudpar bhi aajmakar dekh sakte hai. Jaise agar aap ek smart phone kharidna chahte hai aur aapke pas utne paise nahi hai ki smart phone effort kar sake tab us waqt aapko lagta hai agar aapke paas smart phone hota to aap bahot khush ho jate. Lekin jaise hi aap smart phone kharid lete hai uske kuch din baad hi aapki wo khushi gayab ho jati hai kyuki tab tak aapka smart phone se man bhar chuka hota hai aur aap kisi aur vastu me fir se khushi dhundne me lag jate hai.

To sawal ye hai ki agar jaroorat ko pura karne me asal khushi nahi hai to fir kaha hai ? Iska jawab aapko khud apne dil se milega. Zindagi me hume khushiya chhoti chhoti baaton me hi milti hai. Ye alag baat hai ki har insan ka khshi ka karan alag ho sakta hai. Lekin kuch chhoti chhoti baaten hai jo common hai jisme sabko khushi milti hai. Jaise subah ki taji hawa me, Chidiya ki chahchane ki aawaj me, Sham ko family ke saath chai ki chuski me, Garmi me thandi pani se aur thandi me garam pani se nahane me, Raat ko chhat me jakar chand ko niharne me, Festivals ko celebrate karne me, Puja karne me, purane dino ki achhi baaton ko yaad karne me, Favorite music sunne me, achhe pakwan me, party karne me, shopping me, movies dekhne me, travel karne me etc

Aisi hi bahot se chhoti chhoti baaton se hi hume real khushi milti hai. Lekin jo insan in sab chijo ko chhorkar sirf paise me khushi dhundne lag jate hai wo insan bas zindagi bhar khushiya dhundte hi reh jate hai. Upyukt baato me jyadatar chijo ko aap bina paise kharch kiye bhi kar sakte hai aur zindagi me bahot khush reh sakte hai.

To kya hum apni khushi ke liye dusro ko khush nahi rakh sakte ? Kya dusro se achhe vyavhar nahi kar sakte ? Kya dusro ko nicha dikhane aur shoshan karne ki wajay unka unse apni khusiya baant nahi sakte ? Agar aap aisa nahi kar sakte to mai bewkoof hi sahi lekin un logo se bahot jyada khush hu jo mujhe bewkuoof samajhte hai.

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