Women empowerment – Deepika Padukone – “My Choice” reply – महिला सशक्तिकरण


Ye sach hai ki aaj ke samaj me apradh bad gaye hai khashkar mahilaon ke prati. Isliye women empowerment ki jaroorat to hai lekin kya Deepika padukone ki my choice women empowerment ke liye sahi tarika hai ? Kya wakai me is video me mahilaon ke prati ho rahe apradh ka hal bataya gaya hai taki hum ise women empowerment ke liye uthaya gaya achha kadam hai keh keh ke iski sarahana kar sake. Mera manna hai ki bilkul nahi. haa freedom sabke liye honi chahiye lekin my choce is not a right option.

Agar mahilao ko apni choice se jindagi jeene se women empowerment mil jati hai to why not men should have their own choce ? unke paas to jyada choice hoti hai. My choice bilkul honi chahiye sirf women hi nahi sabke liye lekin uski bhi ek limit honi chahiye. Limit isliye honi chahiye kyuki agar har koi without limitation sirf my choce ko follow kar karke apni marzi karne lage to ye samaj ka astitwa hi khatam ho jayega. Sab kuch bikhar jayega. Fir insan aur janwaro me koi fark nahi reh jayega.
Mahilaon ki bhawnao ko mai samaj raha hu. Wo bhi purusho ki tarah khulke jeena chahti hai, aazadi chahti hai. Agar gour se dekha jaye to my choce film banake ke peeche maksad to achha nazar aata hai lekin uska tarika sahi nahi hai. Women empowerment ka matlab sirf sexual aur fashion ki aazadi nahi hai jaisa ki film me dikhaya gaya hai.

Women empowerment
ka maksad asal me tab pura hoga jab sex rasio me badlaw aayega. Jab hamara samaj me mahilao ko har kshetra me purusho ki tarah hi saman adhikar milne lagega. Mahilao ki jansankhya itni ho jaye ki purush dekhte dekhte thak jaye. Mahilaye har field me itni takatwar ho ki purush ko usse competition karna pade. Mahilayen apne aapko itna kabil bana le ki purush khud dahej lene ki wajai dahej dene ke liye taiyaar ho.

Mera manna hai ki agar hum wakai me women empowerment chahte hai to sabse pehle hume mahilao ko kamjor darsane wale kuch dialogue par bann lagana padega. Jaise ki aksar hum kisiko kamjor darsane ke liye is dialogue ka proyog karte hai “Agar tumse ye kaam nahi hota to jao jake chudiyan pehankar ghar me baith jao”. is wakya se spast pata chalta hai ki hum mahilaon ko kitna kamjor samajhte hai. Ye bhale hi kisi film ka dialogue ho sakta hai lekin asal me ye humare samaj ki sankirn mansikta ka sawal hai.

Ek aur baat jo bhale hi aap mujhse sehmat nahi honge lekin mere hisab se ye nahi honi chahiye. Aur wo hai “Mahilaon ke liye alag se reservation”

Bhale reservation mahilaon ke fayde ke liye hi hota hai lekin agar dhyan se dekha jaye to aisa karke kahin na kahin hum unhe kamjor sabit kar rahe hai. ki aapko reservation ki jaroorat isliye hai kyuki aap kamjor ho. Aap me kabiliyat ki kami hai. Dekhiye sarkar ko bhi lagta hai ki aap apni mehnat se kuch hasil nahi kar sakti isliye aapko reservation ki jaroorat hai.

Tisri baat why ladies first ? Ye meharbaani kyu ? Kyuki ladies kamjor hai. Kya darsana chahte hai ? Ladies and gents ek saath nahi chal sakte hai kya ?

Mujhe malum hai ki iske dusre pehlu bhi hai. Ladies first se matlab mahilaon ko samman dena bhi hota hai. Lekin har chij ke dusre pehlu bhi hote hai jise nazarandaaz nahi kiya jana chahiye.

Hume ye maanna padega ki Humare samaj fitrat me kuch aisi baate hai jo ki mahilao ko kamjor sabit karti hai. Jisko badle bina women empowerment ki baat karna baimani lagti hai.

Aaj sabhi women empowerment ki baat karta hai lekin mai kehta hu ki is sabd ki hume jaroorat ki kyu padi hum “man empowerment” ki baat to nahi karte. Kisne diya ye sabd ?

Jawab bahot kadwa hai lekin sach hai. Humara samaj ne hi is sabd ko janm diya aur ab wahi ise khatam karne ki baat karta hai. Isme humara samaj ka doglapan nazar aata hai.

Ek taraf humara samaj hi ladki paida hote hi use kamjor saabit karne ke liye lag jata hai, har chij me ladka ladki me bhedbhaw. Tu ladki hai isliye ye nahi kar sakti wo nahi kar sakti bla bla bla. Aur dusri taraf women empowerment ki baat karke mahilaon se sahanubhuti lena chahte hai. Aisa band hona chahiye.

Samaj ka ye dohra charitra se women empowerment sambhav hi nahi hai. Agar sach me women empowerment chahte hai to sabse pehle har us chij par bann lagani padegi jo mahilao ko kamjor darsane ki koshish karta hai. Chahe wo kisi film ka dialogue ho ya fir ladies first ka nara.

Agar women empowerment chahiye to reservation ki jagah protsahan de taki mahilaye bhi purusho ke saath kadam se kadam milakar chal sake. Ladies first ki jagah saath saath chalne ke liye prerit kare. Is ghatiya soch ko nikal de ki chudiya pehne ka matlab kamjor hona hota hai. Mahilaon ki chudiyan sirf unka sringar hi nahi hota balki unka purusho ke prati unke samman ki bhaw ko bhi darsata hai.


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